The Bantal Busuk love

Do you guys know what is the meaning of 'Bantal Busuk'? Haha it is a term used by malay speaking people. I don't know what it called in english, but if translated, it'll be 'Smelly Pillow' haha.. If I'm wrong I'm sorry >.< haha.. OK, back to the topic, do you ever heard of BANTAL BUSUK LOVE?



      Last night while spending time with my love, we talked about how we're gonna be there for each others in times. In happy times, sad times, and when ever it is. Coming to the end of the conversation, the word bantal busuk came up.

     Usually bantal busuk owned by little kids or babies and gonna be with them for a long-long time even until they become big kids and teenagers and also until they're married!! If thats the case, the pillow must be really really one bantal busuk!! hahaha anyway, bantal busuk will never be left behind by its owner. No metter where he/she goes, the bantal busuk won't be far. The special bond between the owner and the bantal busuk  can't be denied. Happy moments, sad moments, during the night, and wherever he/ she goes the bantal busuk will be there. No matter kids or adults who owns a bantal busuk, they're the only one who knows how special it is. The bantal busuk in others eyes may be so ugly, but in the owners eyes it is the most beautiful thing ever!!

      However BANTAL BUSUK LOVE is not about loving your bantal busuk or loving any other pillow. It is actually the bond between you and your love one. There are couples that seems very loving and so close to each other but in reality, they're not. They only looks so loving when they're happy and no problems occur. But when problems started, everything seems like no way out. And there are also couples that are together only when condition are going well but at some other condition, they go on their own ways. Also, there are also some couple that only be together when they're actually together. Means, when his/her partner are away he/she won't be a couple. Don't get me wrong, I didn't say all couples are like that. Only 'SOME' okay...hehehe...

     BANTAL BUSUK LOVE doesn't need to be shown to others. It is only between your partner. It means that no matter what happens, in what condition and what you both face LOVE is LOVE. Some people may say 'Hey, I'm doing it now' and 'I love my partner even if he/she is sad'. Let me ask you this, what if he/she did something wrong to you? Sometimes you'd get mad like you have no more feelings towards him/her. I don't mean to judge, but this things do happen... If you really love your partner, treat him/her as your bantal busuk. And trust me, no matter how big your problem between your partner, you'll go through it easy.

      BANTAL BUSUK LOVE is only my own theory... If you got anymore ideas, lets just share it guys^^

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